I will treat you with respect, so you will know how to treat me.

Feel free to do anything that doesn't cause a problem for anyone else.

If you cause a problem, I will ask you to solve it.

If you can't solve the problem, or choose not to, I will do something.

What I do, will depend on the special person, and the special situation.

If you feel something is unfair, whisper to me, "I'm not sure that's fair," and we will talk.